Another periodic missive from this relatively antiquated platform. I sold my house. Thus part of my plan to exit the USA should the GQP do well in the 2022 midterms has been executed. The details: I sold it to my neighbor without going through the usual process. I may have left 100k or more on the table, but garnering the net amount I wanted would've required a sale price at least 200k above asking...and that is never a sure thing no matter what a potential realtor tells you when they want to get the listing. Thus I did ok and to quote one of my investment types, 'Congrats for selling during an oversold market.' It is generally better to get out while the wave is near its' crest than when it is breaking, and I believe I did so. There was quite a bit of mixed feelings about the whole thing. At one point, I had thought my prior home would be lifelong. However, events external and internal precluded that. The quality of my life in the house, especially once Choppy dog had to be put to sleep, really took a turn for the worse. The pandemic and the creeping homeless thing in the 'hood did not help one bit, though having a veggie garden there helped save my sanity during the depth of the pandemic. As I posted on social media, 'Goodbye old friend.' It is helpful my neighbor got around to redoing the place almost immediately, so it will not be around in the same form as a ghost of sorts.
The relationship with the girlfriend has gotten a bit complicated though. It seems as if she was merely patronizing me a bit, and did not expect me to go through with it (though she is definitely on board for me selling the house), nor the rest of my long term 'get out of the USA before ReThug fascism takes over' agenda. There's been a few updates on that front as well that I will address:
1) Australia is off the table for several reasons. She found out that her notions of getting around that country's highly regulated system was a non-starter. Thus the $ I had to spend to to do a Zoom session with an Aussie attorney was worth it as it provided the sort of clarity that my second-hand reading of regulations could not (not that she can bothered to do her own research beyond instagram, but that's a whole other thing).
2) I was also wrong about the EU: I had thought Belgium was the only place where we could go with her as my partner. Nope, this applies to the entire bloc including the three top destinations: Portugal, Spain, & France. To repeat, as a citizen of an EU country, Belgium, I have the right to live and work in any EU country, as well as my non-EU citizen partner or spouse (the French use the word 'spouse,' whereas the Portuguese & Spanish use the word 'partner'). All we would have to do is show up, rent a place (which I can do), and then register her within 90 days, DONE. And for a whole lot less than Australia.
3) The princess did bring up a cogent point: Czar Putin's invasion of Ukraine has certainly made waiting for events to sort out a good idea. Europe is in danger from this truly dangerous megalomaniac, especially since not all of his lackeys within the EU like Viktor Orban have not been consigned to obscurity. Nonetheless, I will be proceeding to take the steps to enact my long term agenda. At some point, her & I may need to speak with a therapist of some sort as a mediator.
In other news, another long delayed project (artists are the bane of my business existence, as they flake off far too often) is being released May 15, 2022. I'm really proud of Wunderman Comics' new release, War Medicine. I also have another project from a query email, where I'm serving as Editor / Publisher. The latter is requiring a lot of mentoring to the point of lecturing.
Anyways, with the sale of my now former house, an era in my life is coming to an end. I emerge from in hopefully better health, physically, emotionally, and financially.